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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like the idea of both families and the nanny meeting together. You would not want the nanny to feel the families went behind her back.[/quote]

They are her employers, not her partners. They should discuss their needs and options privately before involving the nanny. I doubt their nanny would want to sit through their awkward "negotiations" (for lack of a better word) anyway. [/quote]

The nanny is NOT your race horse that you negotiate.

How DARE you and your elitist self.
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I'm sorry? What are you talking about?

Two sets of parents employ a nanny. When the situation for one of the sets of parents changes, they should discuss with the other family what they all [b]ideally[/b] want to do - make it a 3-child share? invite the nanny to work FT for the family with 2 children? invite the nanny to stay on with the other family and have a new family join the share? Once both sets of parents have decided what would best suit them - what their needs are - they can sit down together with the nanny and let her know about the new addition. They can then ask her if she would be interested in XYZ offers that they have discussed.

If the two sets of parents are unable to reach an agreement, then they should let the nanny know that they will be dissolving the share. They can each then make whatever offer they want to the nanny and she can make her decision.

Please, try TRY to understand what you're reading before you jump off the deep end.[/quote]
I've done several shares. Each families negotiates with me directly. I would not tolerate your nonsense, pp. You'd be out of the share if you tried to go behind by back like that.

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