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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with Nanny Deb. When the other family in our first nanny share was expecting a second child, we discussed what to do and how to deal with it (what we could afford to pay, how to adjust each share) and we came up with (a) an offer to our nanny that she could accept or not, and (b) agreed that if our nanny did not want to watch three children, we would offer her continued employment with one of the families. It worked out fine. I would not consider just stealing the nanny away or go to her first with an offer for just your kids and leave the other family screwed. Not only is that shady, you put the nanny in a bad spot whether she says yes (and leaves the other family with a terrible impression of both of you) or no (maybe she has a favorite employer and - surprise - you aren't it). [/quote]
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