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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]People saying this is manipulative are taking it too personally. It's called negotiating.[/quote] Its negotiating if the sitter had brought it up in previous emails before being selected and making arrangements. The MB put forward the offer and there was no reason why the sitter waited to try to negotiate afterwards. Its not as manipulative as waiting until she showed up but its still manipulative. [/quote] It's not like the sitter tried to explain her rate after working for OP and demanding cash in hand. She probably realized they had both dropped the ball in not discussing pay/negotiating a rate and figured better late than really late! I doubt it was manipulative at all. OP, you don't owe her anything but nor does she owe you anything. If you don't want to pay her rate you can tell her what you are comfortable paying and she can decline or accept. If she declines, move on to someone new with your lesson learned.[/quote]
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