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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NAnny is doing what is best for her and OP should do what is best for herself. You people worry too much about hurting other peoples feelingss. In this world most people generally care about thereselves and what is best for them. I can tell by the tone of alot of you holier then thou posters that you're complete hypocrites who don't always do the 'right' thing so stop judging OP. OP - IF your nanny is anything like the nannies on this board then I'd kick her to the curb. No notice, nothing.[/quote] Yes she is doing what's best for her by finding full time work. I don't think anyone faults her for than, aside from maybe OP. However, in fulfilling her own needs, OPs nanny is also doing her best to consider OPs needs. Their contract called for 2 weeks notice, but OPs nanny graciously gave more than that, despite the risk that MBs sometimes use that extra notice to screw you. And what is OP planning on doing in return? Taking the notice, tossing it out the window, and screwing her. Do you think that nanny will ever give more than the required notice again? Next time you all are searching for a nanny and you find yourself wondering where all the good ones are, remember this thread. This is what happens, and MBs are the ones ruining the pool of good nannies by shitting in it. Nannies are advised not to speak ill of former employers to new employers. You have no clue what kind of horror stories your nanny has been through, but she's now caring for your children. If I were you, I would not only do my best to treat her as fairly and kindly as possible, but I would hope that former employers did so as well so that I don't pay for their mistakes. [/quote]
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