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[quote=Anonymous]I will be honest. I have no desire to host AP's family for weeks on end. We will allow a visitor for perhaps a week and AP's friends are welcome to sleep over on weekends, etc. I'm not running a hostel, though. I know I'll be called inhospitable, but I do think it's unreasonable to have visitors for a week or more and expect someone else to feed and house them. We love our AP and I do consider her to be part of the family, but even my family members do not visit for that long. We are very generous in many other ways, but this is one I just can't handle. It's not the food issue. I just really need my personal space and my downtime. I tend to not be friendly when visitors are there for too long. We are up front about it, though. I actually rejected a candidate solely because in the interview she kept talking about all the various friends and family that would be coming to visit once she was in America.[/quote]
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