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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you just give her the chance to volunteer to help on her own? That way you haven't told her to do it, and aren't having to even ponder this question. I think most people with a decent home training realize that adults, especially the ones who didn't cook, pitch in to help clean up. If your AP doesn't naturally offer to help when she joins you, address it then. [/quote] All our APS except the last one always pitched in after the meal. I usually shooed them away after they cleared the table, etc. But the last one (before our current) NEVER pitched in. She basically treated us as she must her own parents. She really wanted to be the third child. So, so glad she is no longer in our lives.[/quote]
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