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[quote=Anonymous]MB here and I don't think a 4 year commitment is a reasonable request. In fact, it's not reasonable in any workplace. What you could say is that you don't feel comfortable saying that you can guarantee 4 years as any number of things that are beyond your control could happen. (There could be a health crisis in your or the family's world. MB or DB could have a change of job status or move that would change the employment possibilities. They could have more kids. Etc....) But that you would love to be in a position for several years if everything worked out the way you hope, and that you certainly see everything that would make that possible with this family. I would try to find out why they're asking this. Have they had turn-over in the job that has been a problem for them? (And if so, why did the turn-over happen?) What happens in 4 years - is that when the kid(s) would go to school? Etc... I see this as unreasonable but not necessarily a horrible red flag if everything else seems great. But at best it's an unrealistic expectation. So a lot is riding on the discussion you have with them, and what you're willing to promise/risk. Good luck.[/quote]
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