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[quote=nannydebsays]OP, I don't think your employers have a "need to know" this - it does sound as if they're trying to find the right mix of business/personal relationship with you, and you can choose to keep things perfectly business-like or you can choose to go for the personal "friend" relationship. I actually liked the suggestion above to tell them when they ask your plans that you're going out to dinner with a guy you know and HIS boyfriend (the original suggestion was "girlfriend" but that can be less than clear, IMO.) and see what they say/how they react. I hate to be a downer, but considering what the PP implied and said, if you do choose to come out, please be prepared to start your job hunt. Some folks can't cope with those who are different from their personal definition of "normal". Best of luck to you![/quote]
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