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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It would be like if you were a doctor and instead of having your kids treated at your practice or by a pediatrician you're friends with, you sent them to the emergency clinic around the block. Or a lawyer leaving their pot-possessing kid to navigate the legal system on their own. You use your skills to better the lives of your children, whenever and wherever you can. My skill is caring for children, why would I want someone else to care for mine?![/quote] The answer to your much-punctuated question would generally be "so I can keep my children fed and clothed". Never mind, you do what you like with your own children. But your assumption that nannies who leave their own kids in someone else's care while they go to work are somehow short-changing their babies is both short-sighted and insulting to women who earn an honest and good living providing childcare. Your doctor and lawyer comparisons make zero sense. If a pediatrician treats no one else but their kids all day long, she won't have much of a practice soon. If a lawyer does nothing all day but defends their own kids in court, well, that may be a better option than a public defender, but it's also unsustainable financially. Again, your basic issue is that someone else's kids get something better than yours, and they happen to get it from you. Tell me - do cooks at Le Bernardin get to feel resentful as they prepare these foie-gras-studded meals? No cook can afford a steady diet of ingredients they get to play with at work, after all.[/quote]
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