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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think I would be ok with this either. However, at the end of the first week I would've sat down and said Due to the amount of time it takes me to help John with his homework I am unable to complete all the house hold tasks you have asked me to. Would you prefer me to drop a task or two, or would you like me to take half an hour while the kids are outside to do those tasks (ie exchange time spent playing with the kids in order to complete tasks). I would ask if there is anything I could do better and would maybe take note of the specific way MB wants things done. I wouldn't be happy about being texted/ called late or early about something that could wait untill later in the day and I would expect to be paid for the time i was there You as the OP have two choices. Sit down and have a chat about whats going on. Ask about the stuff thats troubling you. Ask how the MB wants things done - ask if she wants you pay for you to stay later to finish jobs/ do less/ spend less time with the kids ect. Say she doesn't seem interested does she just want the important info, ask for a specific work calendar, ect, ask how she wants you to discipline said child. If things are covered to your satisfaction great stay on in a better work environment, otherwise find a new job (where you clarify these things before you start) give some notice and leave.[/quote]
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