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[quote=Anonymous]MB here.  I would not having a problem hiring you and I would respect an honest answer (fiance passed away, decided to move home).  My condolences on your loss.

However, I have to say that given how recent this is, how quickly you left your last job, how quickly you're jumping back in, and how I know loss/grief can take a while and rear it's head in unexpected ways, I'm not sure I would be totally comfortable assuming you would be long term or especially stable in the position.  That isn't a slam against you - just what my concern might be and something I might consider if evaluating multiple candidates.  You definitely should be honest (people understand life changing events) but also be careful not to overshare in a way that makes potential employers worry that you aren't capable of being calm and professional, fully engaged with their kids, able to give your best while on the job, etc...

But, a part time position for the next few months does sound like a very reasonable way to start.   I think that could allow you time to grieve, and also allow you to maintain professionalism at work during the hours you're "on duty".   Good luck to you.[/quote]

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