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[quote=Anonymous]I can see where you're coming from. As a nanny, I try very hard not to overstep my boundaries when it comes to "firsts" but your nanny has no way of knowing what specific "firsts" are important to your family. I once had a boss call me in tears because I planned to take my charge ice skating for her Christmas present. I had no idea the mom used to skate and had always dreamed of taking her daughter for the first time. Of course I changed our plans once I knew this. If she is a good nanny and otherwise respects your wishes, she probably would feel terrible about it if she knew how this made you feel. I know I would (though if it were me, I would just use my own library card - it is a bit weird to open an account for somebody else's child if not specifically instructed to do so). Keep the lines of communication open and let her know it hurt your feelings. But let her know there was no way she could have known without you telling her.[/quote]
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