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[quote=Anonymous]I don't see why you can't post who's name the car title is in? Or any other details like what your old rate had been, new salary was etc. You say you got paid more to be "on call" and so that you wouldn't need a second job, but you were never on call if you had classes that you were going to on a regular basis? It could easily have been a second job during that time, as you were not available (unless you would take time off school if they needed you, and no one who is wanting to further their education will sacrifice fees paid for missing classes). If the car was done with their own loan and nothing was in your name, then it is their car. You would be foolish to sign something that states you pay full monthly loan prices to them where at any point the car might be taken back by them and you lose out on all the money you put into it. I would only sign something like that if it also included that I would get back x amount of money from THEM. It's like you are defaulting on a car payment. It would be their decision to not let you keep the car even if you could pay. The car should have been treated as you making monthly payments to them for the sale of the car in which you would have partial ownership of it at any point during the whole thing. I think you need to cut your losses and move on from the whole thing. If you need the money you would be losing, then a new job sounds best. As for hourly versus "salary", hourly doesn't have to mean different rates each week if you negotiate guaranteed hours. I agree that you should look for a live-in position with use of family car and then look for a second position as well if needed above what the first gets you. Or find a way to refinance that car and get 1-2 live-out positions and just be done with this whole mess.[/quote]
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