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[quote=Anonymous]If she has been with you a long time, severance is appropriate, and two weeks is on the low end. We would plan to give two weeks notice, plus a month severance, if we needed to part from our nanny. Of course, you are not happy with her performance and that is a consideration, but generosity has virtues and may help things go smoothly. Otherwise, I think your Friday plan is a good one. Watch her reaction and play it by ear if it seems like she wants to say "goodbye" to the kids and that is the best thing. I'd try to stay firm, but positive. There are many things that you have liked about her performance, and you wish her well, but this is not working well for anyone and you have made other arrangements. Fewer details is better. No need to drag through bad feelings or relive past incidents. Does she have keys to your house? Do not forget those. [/quote]
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