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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As expected, giving in my notice ended with my immediately termination.

I feel an intense mixture of relief and sadness.  Much of today I spent crying while looking at my charges faces knowing this was probably the last day I’d be there nanny and maybe the last time I’d ever see them.  I’m pretty heartbroken right now and just didn’t anticipate any of this...

[b]MBs behavior these last two weeks is so uncharacteristic and there is a part of me that feels very guilty that maybe she’s going through something.[/b]

Regardless, it is what it is.

I think I was pretty prodessional giving my notice. I wrote out a letter, handed it to her and verbalized a summary of why I was quitting.  I was super anxious. I mentioned I’m not very good at defending or advocating for  myself in person.  I think I did well.  MB responded by telling me no need to fill out my two weeks because I was being let go today.  She watched as I took the boys car seats out of my car and told me I put her in a terrible position and she was going to have to take off and find a temporary nanny.  I again mentioned I would finish my two weeks and she said no, that she no longer trusted me with her children.

That really hurt.

This has been a pretty terrible and bizarre experience and I really hope things look up.  I want to reiterate how I never expected MB to ever react in this way.  She has never been overly emotional or spoken poorly to me.  She’s usually a rational, reasonable and pleasant employer.  I truly can’t believe this is it, it’s the end of a 2 year position.

For the boys sake, I hope they find a wonderful nanny who is better than I am.   They’re wonderful children and deserve the best.

Thank you for all the support and kind words.  Honestly did NOT expect that from DCUM.
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It doesn't matter what she is going through, OP.  You saw what she was capable of (telling you to do something and then blaming you the outcome of her direct orders) and she would have done it to you again.

You deserve better.  Please, please be grateful that you saw what she was capable of in a minor incident before there was a major incident.  This is clearly the kind of woman who would accuse you wrongdoing to the police should a more serious event arise.

And lastly - DCUM and especially this forum are NEVER in agreement and yet, they were with your thread.  The DCUM crazies couldn't even defend her behavior!  That means something, OP.

Take the well-paying temp work and relax - have a great Christmas with your family.  2018 is going to be an amazing year for you - I feel it in my bones.  [/quote]

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