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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Proportionally he makes more money and my job requires more work hours of related child care. Sharing an au pair has not proven feasible— my au pair is as flexible as they come. It’s just not a good enough peaceful relationship between parents for any au pair to have to go between. Hence my question—- anyone else had 50/50’custody but the one parent that made less $$ used a non shared au pair (or other more expensive child care than the other parent)? If yes— How was that calculated? Thanks all[/quote] It goes into the child support calculation but since you will not share child care you'd also be responsible in that calculation for his. Child support isn't going to pay for an au pair. Be real. This is so bizarre. You both need to use a day care/after school care and if you cannot take the kids, he takes them. He should not pay extra because you refuse to be reasonable [/quote]
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