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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry that happened to you. When my daughter was 2, she had an accident with our nanny and like your employers I sort of overreacted - got upset with our nanny and immediately took my kid to the doctor. Years later I still feel bad that I got so upset with our nanny (we had a great relationship, I did apologize to her at the time). Just trying to give you the perspective of a parent. We aren’t perfect, we are human. The first time our child gets hurt with a caregiver can stir up all sorts of feelings for us - guilt, fear, worry. It’s not right that your employers took it out on you - full stop. But they’re human beings. In my case I’m glad my nanny gave me grace and I’m glad I was able to process my feelings and apologize to her and move on. We are still good friends today! Maybe see how it goes this week and then make a decision? You shouldn’t stay in a job where you are blamed or scapegoated, but also you might want to give them some grace here. [/quote]
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