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[quote=Anonymous]Go to therapy and learn to be a good father.

She's not "Irritated & Annoyed", it sounds like she's exhausted and burned out for having to do it all alone and having a man-baby as a husband.

Your words "or have me do it when I get home from a demanding job all day" speaks volumes. So you don't want to parent when you get home because you have a demanding job? She has to "have you do it"?? Cause she's the only parent and you occasionally HELP her?

What does a 2 year old need? Play, bath time, brush teeth, read a book, bed time, feeding. You expect her to do all of that at night too? She has a routine and want the child in bed by a certain time and you call her OCD? And when she expects you to pull your weight phrase it as "she is having you do it"?

Sorry to break it to you but her job of taking care of a child during those 8-10 hours is more demanding than anything you could have done in silence with breaks. When you get home, her job as the stay at home mom is done!!! Now it's time for both parents to spend time with the child. It would specifically be more beneficial if yo do more of the childcare when you get home as your child doesn't see you all day, and allow her to make dinner or take a shower or reply to emails.

You seem to be the only problem here and you need to make a change. Daycare will not solve anything if you still want to get home in the evening and be lazy and expect her to do all the parenting. You need to STEP UP and be a father to your child!
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