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[quote=Anonymous]Is the issue that you want her to be fresh in the morning? Or that she disrupts your sleep when she returns? If the latter, I think I'll pull myself out of bed right when she wakes me up, and go and gently say something at that time-- it would her disruption very salient-- she may not realize the trouble she has been causing. If the latter, then I think I'd assess whether she actually seems overly tired. She may be taking naps, etc. so the problem you're imagining isn't happening. I also think (if the latter), then I'd kind of continue as you have been. That is, mention breaking curfew gently but not take any stricter action. She'll continue to break it sometimes, but the conversations will hold her in check so it's not very frequent. On the other hand, if you completely let go of the curfew, it will get a lot worse. If you come down hard, it will hurt your relationship.[/quote]
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