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[quote=Anonymous]You might be able to do this for a few days. Call them trial days while you are both seeing if the fit is correct for you and the nanny. I would suggest about a month or two before the baby is born, you start looking for someone. You want time to interview, trial day, and check references on your nanny, so having time to do those things will be important. There will for sure be days (early release, bad weather that is not really bad weather, third day being sick and can't go back to school but is feeling better, teacher work day....) that having another adult will be helpful, even if you are still on leave with the baby. You can also use the nanny's time to have her wash bottles, clean pump parts, do baby laundry, help make baby food (once baby is older -- not sure how long you plan to take leave). It would probably also be nice to have someone take care of the baby while you are present for the therapies and other appointments for your older DS. All this to say, I am sure you can find a way to have the nanny be full time once you hire them, even while you are on leave and DS is in school. You might even be able to find someone who plans to give their family 30 days notice once they find a job who might be interested in shortening their hours with the old family as they ramp up with you. You could also find someone and as they are giving notice to the other family, have the nanny do a few weekend times with your DS to get to know him (and give you time to rest / get ready for new baby).[/quote]
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