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[quote=Anonymous]I think you should just be direct with her and have a conversation about it. When you ask her for the grocery list next time, propose a solution (e.g., getting her own fruits and veggie and putting her stuff on a separate shelf, or something else) and discuss with her. She may not know it's been causing an issue for you unless you talk to her about it. With APs I've found that I have to initiate some unpleasant conversations, about cleaning habits (really lack thereof) and other household issues that cause conflict. Subtleness does not cut it. The alternative is letting it simmer until you get really resentful. [/quote]
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