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[quote=Anonymous]"Do unto others as you would want done unto you."

I think telling her anything outside of the truth is doing her and yourself a disservice.  Be integral in how you handle her.  She is still a person with feelings.

Have a conversation with her letting her know that you will be transitioning the care for your children.  Let her know that although you love her, her work ethic was great when it was just one child, but now that the dynamics have changed you are noticing many areas that are not with your family values.  Give her at least 2 weeks notice so that she may begin to adjust to looking for something that better fits her current skill level, and grant her 4 weeks severance pay as a thank you for the season she has worked for your family.

Reassure her that you still consider her as part of the family and if she is comfortable, you would love to offer her first dibs on date night sitting.

Trust me, I have been in this industry for over 30 years.  The only thing that worked for me and my employers was true honesty.  The same way you are explaining this to us, do the same for her.  Consider getting an interpreter to communicate effectively your heart.

I wish you well as you go through this sensitive portion of decision making.

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