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[quote=Anonymous]I'd like some advice on how to have a conversation with our nanny about time off. Our contract is for 2 weeks of vacation, 5 sick days, and all the holidays that I have off from work. This seems standard to me. Our nanny has already used all of her sick time, asks for 1-3 days off every month, and plans to take 2.5 weeks of continuous vacation this summer. She also often asks to leave early. She has guaranteed hours, so if we are on vacation or have family visiting, she has off those days and is still paid. She takes a lot of time unpaid (despite me saying she should use all her paid time first and then we could discuss using unpaid), saying how she wants to be fair to us and not use too many paid days. Finding consistent backup care for so many sporadic days has been hard. I'm falling behind in work and using up all of my own PTO. I have already told her how difficult it is for me to take off days from work here and there. I have said that the time off we put in the contract is less about what we're willing to pay for and more about how much time off we could take, which was my attempt to stop all of the unpaid time. I'm worried if I say no she will just call out sick in the morning or the night before. Any advice?[/quote]
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