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[quote=Anonymous]With all due respect OP - I think you need to set certain boundaries on your end. Working for a family where even one of the parents telecommute can be very stressful. There are many reasons for this, and one of them is that the Nanny may feel pressured to keep the children in her care quiet as not to disturb her employer while he/she is working. Your Nanny likely feels a little micromanaged (who could blame her though?!) that you told your daughters that they were too busy & that they needed to go outside. For you to tell your children that they are making too much noise to be inside the house is overstepping your boundaries. It conflicts w/any autonomy that your Nanny is entitled to. I would simply grab a quick lunch > then take it + eat it in another part of your house. Leave ALL the childcare duties for the Nanny.[/quote]
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