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[quote=Anonymous]1. It's now a challenge for a Nanny do her job with parents working from home.  If you are around all the house working in common spaces.

2. It's even harder for a Nanny to make the children bond with her and It's a nightmare when the kids are misbehave, rude and don't lister to the Nanny, bcs they know parents are present in the house and little by little a Nanny is losing authority;  bcs they kids never lister to her.

3. It's always impossible to ask the 3 children like completely a new Nanny.  Every single child has their own personality and there are always chances one of the children no like her enough.

4.  Keep in mind.  Your kids will never bond completely with the new Nanny.  Mainly because your children are older already.

5. Most of the Nannies will always prefer to start with a Newborn to bond with them and avoid having this issues with a family, like you are having it now.  When you start with a baby the relationship and bonding; It will never be the same, than when you start with older kids.  Older kids, will never behaved, will never listen, or will never bond with a new nanny everytime.

6.  You have gone through Different Nannies (2 or 3?)  Not a good sign.  This is not healthy for a kid.

So Do Not expect, every single Nanny that you will hire;  will be able to bond deeply with your 3 children, since they are older already.  No babies.  It will always be one kid that might no like her so much than the other siblings.  And DO NOT blame the nanny.  If she doesn't take any initiative;  it's simple, you are always there, not letting her doing her work and your middle child just maybe say doesn't like her, bcs she has other option.  Mom or dad always are in the house to go to her rescue, and not helping the Nanny at all,  to encourage your kids bonding with the nanny.

If you don't like her or your poor little girl is suffering so much as you meant, just be honest and let her go;  even though the Nanny is not doing something wrong. You are the one who is Wrong.  Just let her go, so this Nanny finally, can find a better fit with a Great Family who really appreciate her very much.  Wishing this Nanny the best finding a Newborn.

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