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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't get an "inconvenience" fee. That's not a thing. You DO normally get a travel fee but you needed to negotiate that before traveling - you're SOL WHILE traveling if you didn't put it in place beforehand.

Keep in mind if you're not "on" then you don't need to eat with the parents. Just say "I'm going to do my own thing this evening."  And go do it.[/quote]

Op here, we chatted and agreed upon an inconvenience fee of $100/day, so not really SOL. It is a thing for other DC Nannie’s I have met, some who get $200/day. Check out what this 12+ year experienced nanny had to say about an inconvience fee.  [url]https://www.nannycounsel.com/blog/traveling-with-your-nanny-its-your-vacation-not-theirs[/quote]

The article makes what seems like a bit of a jump from "parents who won't pay the nanny her hourly rate at all because they're taking her on vacation" to "daily inconvenience fee on top of hourly pay for being away from home." I also cannot find support for the claim that they legally must be paid for the time they spend traveling if they have absolutely no duties. Why would this logic of "they are not free to do what they want" not apply to paying for their normal commute time as well? (Genuine question here: if someone can point me to any kind of legal source, I want to know.)

To be clear, I'd definitely pay an extra fee or at least a generous trip bonus if our nanny had to stay in the same house with us and share meals, as there's a loss of privacy that can be very tiresome. However, our preferred solution for stuff like this is to give the nanny more privacy instead, in the form of a separate hotel room or a rental house with a private entrance ADU, as well as a rental car or public transport pass so she can come and go as she pleases. I would hope this offsets most of the inconvenience of travel and gives both her and us more privacy. If our nanny said she wanted an additional daily fee on top of that, I wouldn't say no. But I would take that to be a signal that she REALLY dislikes traveling with us, and aim to avoid having to ask her again to travel in the future. (Best of all would be if she could just tell me she hates traveling for work, but I understand a lot of nannies hesitate to be so blunt for good reason.)[/quote]

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