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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I cannot even imagine what your first AP must have been like, given your comment about this AP being better than the last one. But your AP sounds terrible. We are on AP #6 and we would rematch in a heartbeat if we had the issues that you are describing. Our APs have occasionally taken the car without asking, but we addressed it right away. Not following your rules would be a dealbreaker. And I would rematch. There is one thing that I want to add without offending you, but it sounds like you may have been a bit of an enabler. Either you have rules or you don’t. For example, if you have rules about screen time, then make sure to enforce them. But if you first communicate a rule, but then let it go when your AP ignores it, you are sending the message that the rules are not real rules but mere suggestions. Obviously, your AP still sounds terrible. You can do a lot better. Good luck [/quote]
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