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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She's not a good fit for your family. for future reference, establish clear expectations. We have it in our handbook that aps have a curfew of being home 8 hours before their shift is due to start. They can spend their time however they want on Friday and Saturday nights, but Sunday night is school night, and the curfew applies there. We've never had anyone having issues with this.[/quote] Seriously. We aren't running a college dorm. We are a family with kids in the house who don't want to be awakened by someone getting home at 4am. It's not unreasonable to have a curfew in a home with young kids.[/quote] You can't control another adult's life ... She's not your daughter. All you can ask is for her to not make noise when she gets home in the middle of the night on weekends and that's it. It's different during the week, she has to sleep and you can ask her to come home at a reasonable time[/quote]
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