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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the reason for the curfew if you have school age kids?  Does she need to drive them in the morning?  If so coming home at 6am would bother me but not if she doesn’t start working until 3pm.  Also all of our au pairs can come and go as they please if they aren’t on duty - I’m not sure where the respect is an issue there.  If she isn’t working this weekend I’m not sure what the problem is with her spending the weekend with a boyfriend?  But it doesn’t matter what wouldn’t bother me.  It doesn’t seem like you guys are a good fit.  [/quote]

Op here. Yes she does take the kids to school. And it is undisputed that her free time is her and I have no problem with her spending it with her boyfriend or anyone, it is the lack of communication. I would have rather she told me before the fact especially considering she sent me the text at around 1am and awake watching TV until about 45 minutes before the text. Appreciate your input on the the curfew but also curious what your thoughts are on the lying and luck of communication. There was more to my post than just the curfew. We went the AP route because it’s live in childcare. Coming in at 6 is no difference than a nanny. With the AP we have worry free mornings before work where we are not worried about nanny not showing up on time or even calling out. With an AP that comes in morning there is potential for these problems. Mind you we’re only in week 3 with this AP so this is a wrong my way to start things.[/quote]

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