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Reply to "Anyone Love their AP for a While but then AP Became Weird and Lame - is that a thing?"
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[quote=Anonymous]A few observations: - I find the au pairs to be impressionable. I see them often evolve and change during their year or two. I think a lot of it is because they are young and still figuring out who they are. Add in being in a new culture and how that changes them. - Post covid our two au pairs have followed the pattern described here (they talk to each other and get these crazy expectations). Our current au pair is not that great at all and yet wants every possible perk the program can offer (freedom, independence, credit card for usage, own bathroom, own car, gas money, easy schedule (all of which we offer) plus extra perks and extra money, but yet also wants us to be inclusive and patience and 'like a family'--oh and also wants second year in California in an urban area). I find the expectations to be bizarre --and NOT realistic at all-- but I think a large part was being influenced by the other au pairs. [/quote]
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