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[quote=Anonymous]Help!!!  Just after agreeing to match with a fantastic overseas au pair, I found out that her beloved boyfriend runs a porn site.  This was openly advertised on his social media which is linked to hers. I did not run a sting operation to find this out— it’s right there for anyone (his family and friends) to see.

I am disgusted by this and shocked that she would think it is OK to be in the relationship at all. I worry about what it says about her values and the people she may keep company with here. I also wonder about her level of responsibility and decision making.  And I have tween girls who need a role model.  What if he wants to come visit??

On the other hand, we liked her enough to match with her, and as far as I can tell she does not participate in the porn. I did not pay to find that out for sure…. I’m trying to be nonjudgmental but am having a really hard time with this. Had I known before the match, I think I would have walked away.  But now I feel committed.

Any thoughts???  Help!![/quote]

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