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[quote=Anonymous]Is it possible? Would love to hear from families who have had success and haven’t been drained by neediness. We’ve had two HIGHLY needy au pairs who both came across as mature, self-sufficient and capable during interviews. One was 20, one was 24. Both ended up being emotionally immature and expected us to parent them for them as if they were our own children. We took a break after our second AP rematched out of the blue. (Because we didn’t have family dinner together enough. Our children are 6, 4, and 2 so family dinners are rare and hurried, admittedly.) However, we loved certain aspects of the program and would love to try again. Our first two have been more work than help at (many) times. [/quote]
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