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[quote=Anonymous]I think the au pair is required to have one home address only.  I think having her commute over to the other parent's house for work hours may be viable.  One of my APs became an illegal nanny after she was my AP, and she worked for a family with this arrangement and found it super difficult.  I think it's a tough situation to put someone in, answering to two different bosses with different household rules, schedules, and expectations.  One of my AP's friends had her host parents get divorced while she was there, and they ended up living in different units in the same building and getting her a studio in the same building.  Technically the AP is supposed to be living under the same roof with the family, but this worked out for them for a while. One thing that would make me uncomfortable is that having your AP live with your 2 year old full time while you're only around half the time may position her to be the "primary caregiver" and #1 person in your child's eyes.  [/quote]

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