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[quote=Anonymous]We have an au pair who is wonderful with our children and overall a very solid person to live with. When she arrived to our house after a very friendly rematch, she was always checking in before using our third vehicle and sharing her general plans during her time off. I do not intend to police her (even during COVID) because I consider her to be an adult, but it was very nice to see that she respected our house and our car and gave us an idea of her plans. Lately, she comes and goes as she pleases (which is fine!), but we don't know her plans at all and she is gone with our car for full days. It makes it hard to know when to lock our doors for the night, if i can wear pajamas to common areas as I have no idea if she is home or not after going out. As much as I wanted her to spend time with her friends and do fun things over the weekend, i need a bit of consideration on her part and not to treat our home as a hotel and our car as if it was hers. Are my expectations off? She is also coming at the end of her term, but I don't want to deal with this even for that bit of time. [/quote]
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