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[quote=Anonymous]I kind of understand this. Our au pairs have always declined any offer of going with us to events or activities outside of work hours. I used to offer when we were doing fun things or cultural activities or seeing a local place that tourists like to go to. But, they never say yes when we are at home, so our dynamic is that they work their hours and then have free time outside of those hours to do as they like. When we travel, I don’t try to upend that dynamic. I always let them know what we are doing and, if they ask, they can come along. But, I figure that they are adults who can choose how to spend their time and most of them want to watch Netflix and get coffee more than they want to go to pumpkin patches and wildlife centers. I get it. I was in my 20s once and those things would have been lame to me as well. [/quote]
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