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[quote=Anonymous]Hello all,
Sorry it would be little long. I have some questions for parents and nannies. I'm working for a family for almost 3 years now as a nanny housekeeper position with 3 children. I will go step by step. When I started the job it was only 1 child so I had a lot of times to the housekeeper. 1) It was a a light housekeeper, load, unloading, and folding clothes for the whole family and doing the dishes. When I started the child was 14 months and had a surgery so she stayed at the hospital for 2 weeks. I was barely coming but I was paid the 40 h/weekly. Sincerely, I felt bad to be paid without working. I started cooking for the family, organizing their closet, organizing the pantry, walking the dog and vacuum the leaving room. The mom stayed home for 3 months without working so some days I was coming some days not. Twice a week I was doing grocery and 3 times dry cleaning or poste office. At that time, she was asking me to pick some extra for her sister's grocery that I dropped. At that point, it wasn't annoying since I weren't working full time and got paid full time. Few months later, she got pregnant and her sister was bringing her 2 children at home but she wfh. It wasn't bad until some morning I came to work and she told me, " can you take all the kids to the playground, museum, zoo etc..." Once a while is fine with me because I had a lot of free time. However, it started to be too much. Her nephews started to eat and leave everything around, she makes me go and work for her with all the children for free and they started to really disrespect me by telling me " our mom said you can't have your phone when you're with us" " mom said to do our laundry and dishes before leaving and so on...The family I worked for started putting their clothes on the floor, making me cook every single day and Fridays cook and take food to her sister. Leaving the sing from all dirty dishes from the weekend for me. Making walk to dog twice a day and sending the dog to the groomer once a week. Sometimes the grandparents, the sister and the nephews clothes to wash. The sister now could text me and tell me to do this and that. I have spoke with the family that she didn't hire me for a nanny share. I'm frustrated and took 2 weeks off and I really  want to ghost them because I know nothing would change. What can you suggest me, how to handled it please? Sorry for the error I'm not a native English speaker.
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