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[quote=Anonymous]We are an experienced host family and matched with a lovely girl who is set to arrive in a few months. During all of the interviews I’ve ever done, I have never asked about smoking because it is something the au pair agencies screen for (no smokers allowed to be au pairs). However, in her social media posts that we now have access to, there are a number of pictures of her smoking and/or holding a vaper. I asked her about the smoking and she said she was “holding a cigarette for a friend” on multiple occasions (I don’t believe that).  Many of the other pics show her with a vaper.  Smoking is definitely a deal breaker, and I would really really really not prefer to have someone in our house who vapes (even if it isn’t around the kids).  I’m not sure I will get a truthful answer if I ask her and would hate to discover it officially once she is here. Even if she promises not to do it around the kids, I don’t like the idea of it being in the house where very young children could find it and play with it or eat it.  However, I’m not sure if a couple (like 10 that clearly demonstrate a pattern) pics should be grounds for cancelling the match in advance of the arrival. Would vaping be a deal breaker for you?[/quote]

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