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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This afternoon we'll be telling our nanny of four years that we won't be needing her services this fall. It won't come as a surprise that our son will be going to preschool which we've been talking openly about, but may come as a surprise that we've decided to send our 2YO DD to all day prek as well. We really love her, she's done an amazing job, and I know these relationships eventually come to an end. We wanted to give her as much notice as possible (understanding she could leave--but we want to be fair), we plan to pay her four weeks beyond when we part ways (so basically a week of pay for each year of service, we just can't afford a lump sum bonus), and we will do everything to put out stellar references to help her secure another job. I just feel awful about it though. Any ways you'd recommend having the conversation, things to say? Any things I'm missing or forgetting to consider?[/quote] Jobs end but do not tell her that she can babysit for you. This is insulting. [/quote]
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