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[quote=Anonymous]We have always taken our au pairs out for their birthday. I never perceived it as crossing any boundaries. In fact, I always enjoyed our celebrations, especially if they turned 21. At the same time, all our au pairs were very independent, so it was nice when they made time for us. OP, it seems like you have dealt with this issue for over a year now. It seems a bit too late to change the dynamic. Do what feels ok for you. Taking her out for her birthday is fine, all other suggestions are fine, too. [/quote]
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