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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So our current AP is finishing her contract with us soon and cannot extend. She is waiting on a change of status and does not want to go to her home country because of a lack of jobs. She has been 'fine' but not great with our kids.. although frankly some of the issues are clearly pandemic induced. She has offered to stay but I'm honestly quite ready to move on.. But I feel badly asking her to leave when she doesn't have any good options. What can I do? Help her find a live-in nanny position? Give a deadline so she can make plans? I was thinking there are so many desperate families that she should be able to find something. [/quote] You are now getting an answer to the question so many naive but well intentioned people ask when they say - well why can't they move here legally! She can ask to change her status to student or something else. Or she can get married. There is nothing that you can do.[/quote]
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