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[quote=Anonymous]Using you guys as soundboards. I am having a really tough time since back to work after corona. They paid me for 8 weeks during corona where they didn’t want me to come in. I get paid by the hour, no salary, during Corona they paid me 34 hours a week consistently. I guess that was my average hour back then. When I got back about 5 weeks ago I felt so bad about them paying me for all that time (still do) that I told them i would never tel them if I work more than 34 hours they’ve been paying me but would tell them if I worked less so that they wouldn't overpay me. Since then I am working close to 40 hours and I’m not complaining cause obviously I feel like I owe them but I am trully at my witts end with the nonsense I have been doing. This was always also a personal assistant/do whatever kinda position but they are taking to another level. Like blow pollen outside using the leaf blower. Powerwash the front doors garage doors etc. Last week I removed a door because she wanted a chair out of one of the kid’s rooms and the chair wouldnt fit. I am a doer so I do everything that needs done like a good door mat but that is what they love mostly about me. The kicker is that only one kid - A TEENAGER!- and BOTH parents are in the house. She doesn't work and he works from home some days. My point is that I am not needed 5 days a week and suggested to them to reduce my hours for the summer obviously taking a pay cut so that I would come in only when needed. This suggestion was not met well specially from her and she keeps throwing on my face that I already had a lot of time off due to corona. I dont want to be an asshole and say it was a very stressful time where I couldnt go anywhere so not exactly “good time off” and for the summer would be time off UNPAID because I really hate to come in so that she can be filling my time with more shit that I dont want to do (but will because I know I owe them). The reason I’m feeling like this RIGHT NOW is because she just snapped at me out of nowhere and really hurt my feelings because it was a lot! To make matters worse I have an hour commute that has been getting increasingly difficult post corona they are making so many changes on the highway etc it is taking me more time to get to work and quite frankly it is not even worth it but I now feel like I owe them to stay because of so many hours they paid me trhu covid. I’ve worked for them for 5+ years. How long do you think I should guilt myself into staying! Tia[/quote]
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