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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We hosted females for six years and males for four years. We then went back to a female (DD was 15), and it was such a mistake. It’s not about being sporty or not. It’s the energy and the emotion and drama. We returned to hosting males for the next two years and just exited the program this past month. Had we stayed, we definitely would have hosted another BP. I hope returning to a female ap works better for you, OP, than it did for us, but for us, I regretted it almost immediately and throughout the entire year. [/quote] With a teen girl in the house (or a preteen girl who is very into makeup/fashion or is prone to melodrama), I’d steer clear of a female AP. This is not a nanny who will stay calm and diffuse the situation or who will be patient about not being able to get into the bathroom. Most APs are almost as immature as the preteens and teens they shuttle around, and it’s a recipe for disaster.[/quote]
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