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[quote=Anonymous]Your house, your rules. If you're not comfortable with an unknown man staying with you for a week around your kids, say that. If you would rather get to know your AP first and feel like you trust her judgment, then set a "we can reconsider it IF it's after the first 6 months of your year." BF shouldn't even think about visiting in the first few months anyway, and some APs break up with their significant other after arrival. You can always phrase it as, you want AP to go somewhere else with her bf for the week and explore the country rather than having him around while she's working. You can further reinforce that as you will require her to take vacation time rather than have bf hang around your house and your kids.[/quote]
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