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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to 200% take the blame for this to make sure the nanny does not get any wrath from the other family. Let the nanny leave 20 min early one day so you and other family can talk and she won’t get any negative stares from other family. Just make it about how you know that nap schedules are very important to them and the new baby will change the schedule and you are not interested in that. You were ok with two kids in the share but three does not make it work for you. Be polite but firm. You it is not about them paying more or being more flexible with naps. You just need a new arrangement. Then drop the bomb on them that you will be keeping the nanny (as you found her to begin with). Then ask them how long they would like to stay in the arrangement? Until 2.5 when older can go to preschool? Until new baby is born and mom is on maternity leave? Until the end of the month? [/quote]

This is so helpful! Thank you!![/quote]

I actually disagree with this advice, and think you're giving them too many points to argue with. I would recommend something like, "a share is no longer working for us, we have made arrangements with Larla to become our private nanny between X and Y date, and we would like to discuss what transition date would work well for you all."[/quote]

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