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[quote=Anonymous]I have been interviewing this AP that I really like and I am considering matching with. She has a long term bf back home who she disclosed in her profile. I asked her during our first interview if he will be visiting, she said she didn't know but didn't think so because he will probably not get the visa. Now a few weeks later, I sent her our house rules: We don't allow romantic partner to stay overnight, but we allow family member to stay over for up to one week. She asked if we could be flexible and treat her long term bf as a family member so he can stay over for one week. My kids are still small (5 years old and under) so it is not a big deal, but at the same time I don't feel like already bending the rule for someone I don't know if it is going to work out. Is this a red flag? WWYD? Btw she is 25.[/quote]
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