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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you never talk badly of your work? AP was dumb to complain about her work/you to neighbors but I would judge neighbor way more for repeating what he heard and stirring drama (which could be terrible for an AP who is already in abusive situation)  than I would the AP.

The fact that you don’t care why she thinks the job is awful might mean you may not be in the right program. If your AP is mediocre by all means rematch but you do want to look at your own situation and why your AP is finding herself miserable, if you are a family who break the rules/ask too much of your APs don’t treat her nicely or whatever, the Au pair program might not be for you.

You might want to know also that most new APs you will interview will want to talk to your former AP and if she thinks very poorly of you (or you refuse to pass on her information) most APs would personally find it a massive red flag.

Most APs talk shit about their host families, so if you plan to rematch for this be willing to do it again on repeat. People always have things to complain about and APs live with their boss so obviously it is bound to cause some frustration and create some rants. Let her rant, if you don’t like her I am sure you have ranted about her plenty of times before to other people, it’s fine people get frustrated with each other and complain, as long as she doesn’t take the feelings she has towards your family out  onto your kids, I would let it go.[/quote]

Oh, please.  The neighbor did the right thing.  [/quote]

Uh, no. Neighbor is a drama seeking busybody[/quote]

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