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[quote=Anonymous]If your vacations are always at the same time each year, then your employers might think you have these times set far in advance and just don’t want to tell them for some reason. We ask for 2 weeks notice if it’s just a couple days off and 4 weeks if it’s longer, because we don’t want to be overly restrictive and can generally make things work with that minimum amount of notice. However if our nanny *always* gave the absolute minimum notice despite taking vacations at the same times every year, I would be a little irked as well and maybe ask for more notice going forward, because we’d always have to ask grandparents to rearrange their schedule with short notice and pay for relatively last minute tickets so they can come over. I think instead of continuing to have these terse conversations that are unproductive, next time this comes up you can ask how much notice they are hoping to have, if there are certain dates that are harder for them to work with (such as when the kid would miss school vs not), or any blackout dates that will be really difficult for them. And also share your timeline, like “hey my husband and I won’t be able to plan this and confirm until early feb, can I let you know by feb15 what week in May I want off?”[/quote]
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