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[quote=Anonymous]1. “Sweetheart, do you remember where the ketchup is? Perfect. Please close the refrigerator door after you get it.” 2. “Love, can you reach the faucet? Wonderful! Please make sure you turn the faucet off after you refill your glass.” 3. “I understand that you’re frustrated that your backpack is still in the car. Would you like to go get it now or later?” 4. “Does anyone want help cutting their meat? Okay, I cut one piece, your turn to try now. I’m so glad you were watching!” 5. “I hear that dinner isn’t to your liking tonight. While I can understand that, this is dinner tonight. You are welcome to eat or not, it’s always your choice. Breakfast is xyz and will be available starting at abc time. Tomorrow’s dinner will be rst, do you think you’ll want to cut it yourself so that it’s the right size?” I frequently work with older kids too, OP. I’m hired to help kids develop a work ethic, independence, self-confidence and competence. Typically, they’ve been coddled til I get there, and someone has jumped at every demand, so I get it. Just stand firm and don’t give in to their petty tyrannies, and they’ll start to learn that they are capable.[/quote]
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