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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My last AP left my one coffee cup in the sink every.single.morning.  Ugh.[/quote]

Why would you leave your mug there every single morning? She probably knew you were not going to put it away next day either and she didn’t want to do it for you every.single.morning[/quote]

This.

Leaving something for someone else to clean up EVERY SINGLE DAY is incredibly rude. There is a difference between not cleaning the odd forgotten cup up which would be petty vs purposefully leaving stuff behind for others to clean everyday and being upset when they don’t want to.  I don’t even know how you can be upset about that? I would have no problem cleaning up once in a while a forgotten cup but I would completely lose it if someone was purposefully leaving stuff for me to clean everytime just because they couldn’t be bothered to clean after themselves despite having functioning arms and legs. It’s disrespectful and as you have seen, your AP didn’t clean it so would it have killed you to put it in the dishwasher yourself and save yourself the aggravation (on both sides)?

I think the HM who is annoyed at her AP for leaving a glass out every single day is proof that whoever leaves the glass out for other to clean up is annoying af and completely rude.

It’s not about the glass it’s about the laziness behind it and the entitlement that it’s no big deal because someone will pick up after you, it’s pure laziness and entitlement.

I wouldn’t be mad at an AP for not picking after me the same way I wouldn’t expect my husband or anybody else to be mad at me for not picking up after them (and would go ballistic if they did). 
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