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[quote=Anonymous]Our Ap has been here for 4 months and asked to extend with us. The first 2 months were vary rough and we were pretty close to rematching. The 3rd month was ok. Last month actually was pretty good. But I feel like it is too early to make a decision on this. Right now, I’d say no for sure but if she continues to improve I feel like I’d entertain the idea by I don’t want to make a choice yet. So for now I just said oh it is so early, let’s see if you like winter, let’s wait until the paperwork comes and then talk about it...any other advice? At which month do you think it is reasonable to come up with a response to this. FWIW with the 2 au pairs we extended with we asked them at the 6 month mark and gave them a month to decide. With the au pair I did not want to extend with, the feeling was mutual and she told me at the 6 month mark that she was extending but wanted a new family. So I feel like it is very early.[/quote]
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